Try focusing on your breathing again--doing deep belly breathing. Focus your attention on your breathing instead of on the problem that made you angry. Remind yourself that when you are...
1 Answers 2 viewsTake a step back and turn your attention toward your own thoughts and emotions. Connect with these feelings and thoughts, and try to understand what's happening, along with why you're...
1 Answers 1 viewsIf the kitten is too rough during play, then disengage from the game until they calm down.
1 Answers 1 viewsClosing your eyes and taking some deep breaths for 30 seconds can make a big difference in calming you down.
1 Answers 1 viewsA lot of times, this just comes down to a shift in perspective. If you can get away from picturing the worst-case scenario, you're going to have a much easier...
1 Answers 1 viewsTry the 54321 technique—it can help you ground yourself. Focus on 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can...
1 Answers 1 viewsYou can try to engage them and just set a framework for what you’d like to change: "When X happened, I felt Y, and I wanted Z." Make an emotional...
1 Answers 1 viewsTrain your dog to recognize signs that you're becoming anxious and perform some task that calms you. This may mean simulating behavior so your dog learns the signs. You might...
1 Answers 1 viewsAsk them a general question, like "Hey, how did you feel about that situation?" Invite them to be curious about their own perceptions and thought patterns so they can understand...
1 Answers 1 viewsIf you're dealing with a dog that's anxious, talk to them in a soothing voice, and be as calm and gentle as you can be when you're grooming them. Take...
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