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John Gottman, a renowned psychologist and researcher, studied why some marriages work and some don’t. He found there are four things that could predict a divorce; he called them the “the four horsemen.” They are criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling. Stonewalling refers to when a partner stops listening, or “shuts down” during a heated conversation. It’s important to keep these in mind and, through regular communication, try to find healthier ways to talk about your differences.

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