How do you talk to a girl without being shy?

Humor is a great way to strike up a conversation. If you're a guy and you see a girl you want to talk to, for instance, you might say, "Oh thank goodness I didn't wear that same skirt today!" Another great way to start a conversation is with a compliment. Try to compliment the person on something more than just their looks—it's better to choose something like their personality or what they're wearing. For instance, you might say, "I can tell you're really fun to be around." If you're in a mall or a shop, you might say something like, "Excuse me, what's your favorite ice cream?" Then, pick the opposite of whatever they suggest. That will create tension, and you can use that to build a conversation.