The soap might be dried out. Get a new soap and lather it with water to get its moisture. You also should wash your hands with it first, because new soap has an outer area which is dry and hard.
Let him know his behavior sometimes leaves you feeling frustrated. Instead of being angry, try to focus the conversation around the importance of spending quality-time with him. This way, maybe...
No. Do use a pen or any other writing utensil. If you want to go this route, I suppose you could use a VERY well-cleaned screwdriver, large nail, awl, etc.,...
It's possible that your issue with scum marks isn't due to the soap you use, but rather the water. People who have hard water tend to not be able to...
Are you concerned that he's mentally unstable because of the bullet wound he sustained? That's definitely a possibility. You should tell your husband what's going on and stop communicating with...
If he disappears for long periods of time with no explanation, then no, he doesn't value you. It may be that he's involved with other people and then gets back...