I'm 11 and am going to be wearing my first bikini soon. I'm not a person who feels good in my body, and I don't really want to attract attention. How do I not attract this weird type of attention?

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Getting attention is outside of your control, so it's and for that reason also not on your 'list of things to worry about'. You're alive and on planet earth with a few billion others; whatever you wear, wherever you go, whatever you say or do, you'll always attract some measure of attention. Just remember if someone stares at your body, they are wrong, not you. So look forward to wearing your first bikini, it's a lot of fun, and focus on that. Enjoy your friends, the sun, the pool, and don't worry too much about the others.

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