Over many years, I have had an acquaintance that has been verbally abusive. I think I have finally had enough, yet I still love them. How do I stop paying attention and stop my heart from caring?

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While it is still okay to care for the person, it is never okay if you are the victim of verbal abuse (or any kind of abuse), regardless of who this person is. It is advised that you inform this person directly that you will not tolerate the verbal abuse. Give examples of how they may be making you feel and why. Provide an ultimatum that if they are unable to stop, you will need to stop associating with them. Perhaps, if this is a family, friend, or intimate relationship, you both could do counseling together. Sometimes having a mediator involved will help with communication

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