My husband is white. At family events they acknowledge me and then move away and make me feel invisible. What can I do?

This is a common issue. If you think they are doing it subconsciously just because they aren't sure what to say to you, you can try talking to your husband and asking him to let his family know that they make you feel left out. He can give them ideas on how they can better include you in their family. If you think they are purposely trying to be mean to you, you and your husband should decide on a course of action that works best for you. You can choose to confront them together, or you might choose to spend less time with them, or even cut them out of your lives altogether.