How do a girl and a guy create a bond?

Start out as friends and get to know each other. Look for things you have in common, and let things that you don't have in common broaden your perspective. If you find that you're both interested in each other, try going on dates and becoming more intimate. Have fun discussions, joke around, and be able to laugh with and at each other. In addition, have deep conversations about each other's dreams, hopes, goals, and fears. Find out what drives the other person. Talk to each other about your emotions and try to put your emotions into positive actions. It takes a long time, but the longer it takes, the stronger the bond!