I know this is a stereotypical answer, but try making a pros and cons list for each person. If you still can't decide, try going to a therapist or someone along those lines. Since you are worrying this much and feeling so guilty about loving another person, you obviously care about her. However, remember that your wife deserves to be with someone who loves her, so if you don't love her, let her go.

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