When a chao reincarnates, it starts out with 10% of everything that the chao ended with, and every stat starts off as level 1. If you max everything out, its second life will start out with 10% of the said experience, if that makes sense.
Consider the unique teaching presence they have given you and provide examples of how they have had an impact on you. Also how they have inspired your ideas about your...
Try 0001. That usually works for me. It not that, try 0010. then, 0100. then 1000. Then 0011. then, 0110. then 1100. then 0111. then, 1110. then, 1111.
Download it again and go to settings and click delete. If that does not work, you may have to factory reset or restart your phone. If that doesn't work, then...
Take things slowly, and don't try to rush things. Being too aggressive, or seeming very desperate, can really make your chances of connecting worse. Since they're your best friend, think...