If you're not really a direct person, drop subtle hints that you don't really like physical contact. Simply say, "Sometimes I'm not in the mood for hugging and stuff. I like personal space." Being passive aggressive at times is totally okay. If they don't get the message, be direct. Say, "I don't want this to come off the wrong way, but I'd like it if we stopped hugging and stuff." And remember, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. Practice saying what you're going to say and remain calm even if they don't take it well. Say, "It's not anything personal. I just want to stop physical contact."

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