What sorts of tops go well with harem pants?

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No. High tops are made of cloth or other less durable material and cant keep jeans in place well. You could try, but cuffing your jeans or letting them hang...

You can dress-down dark wash jeans by pairing them with a T-shirt and casual shoes, so they're super versatile.

It depends on how old you are. You could choose black and white tank tops with a built-in bra (at Justice). But if you are older, then you should use...

Nautical stripe tees and denim shirts are both fun, playful options that won't be too much.

You could throw on a camisole or vest. If you want to get really spicy with it, you could layer a kimono over your top for a really flowy look.

Pair your tunic with something form-fitting, such as skinny jeans or leggings.

You can pretty much ask whatever you would ask someone whom you're getting to know. What movies and music do you like, cat person or dog person, tell me about...

As long as they look formal, then they're okay. Go for black pants, and pair them with a black dress shirt.

You can, but it won't be as movement-friendly as proper basketball clothing.